1. To see if you truly feel worthy of her
If a guy needs a woman to be nice, gentle, straightforward, supportive and be good to him during an interaction at all times in order to feel confident around her, then she knows that he is almost certainly going to become insecure, clingy, jealous and potentially controlling in a relationship.
This is why women test men by saying things to make them feel uncomfortable.
A woman wants to check and make sure that you truly feel worthy of her and you’re not just feeling confident around her because she’s being nice and easygoing.
So, you might be having a great conversation with a woman and after something you say, she then says, “You’re weird,” to see if you base your confidence on what she is saying to you, or if you have independent confidence (i.e. if you truly feel worthy of her and you’re not basing your confidence on what she is saying or doing in any given moment).
Another example is where you’re talking to a woman and you seem to be getting along and everything seems to be going fine and then she says, “Why are you wearing that shirt? That doesn’t match you…the color doesn’t suit you,” to see whether or not you are going to lose confidence in yourself and to see whether or not you are basing your confidence on what she is saying and doing around you.
So, the way that you can use that to your advantage is that rather than getting annoyed at her for testing you or rather than losing confidence in yourself and feeling unworthy of the woman, know that when you maintain your confidence when she says things like that, she is going to feel attracted to you.
She is going to see that you don’t fail her confidence tests, you don’t become insecure and nervous based on what she is saying.
This is especially important for women who have had experiences getting into relationships with guys who don’t feel worthy of them.
They know that the guy will become insecure, jealous and potentially controlling.
A woman wants to avoid that.
She wants to find herself a guy who does truly feel worthy of her and doesn’t only feel confident around her if she is nice to him and straightforward about things all the time.
So, if a man passes a woman’s confidence test, she will then drop her guard and open up to him further.
Another reason why women test men is…
2. To feel attracted to you
The fact is that women feel sexually attracted to a man’s confidence.
It turns them on.
It literally makes a woman feel sexually attracted and turned on when you’re being very confident around her.
I’m not talking about the type of confidence where you have to be loud and make a big scene or anything like that.
I’m talking about relaxed confidence, where no matter what she says or does around you, you maintain your confidence.
So, what you need to remember is that when women test you by trying to make you feel uncomfortable and unsure of yourself and you are confident and don’t doubt yourself, it’s actually attractive to them, it’s enjoyable to them.
Some guys don’t like the idea of being tested and they just want a woman to be straightforward, nice, gentle and sweet all the time.
However that’s kind of like wanting the Earth to stop spinning.
It’s going to keep spinning.
There are certain laws of nature that are in place and they happen for a reason.
There’s no point getting angry at women for testing your confidence.
Instead you should embrace it and use it to your advantage.
Another reason why a woman will test a man is…
3. To make herself feel confident about your attraction for her
Sometimes, it’s about testing your actual interest in her.
This is especially true for unattractive women or for pretty women who are insecure and don’t actually think that they are attractive.
So, what a woman will do is that she will stop being so friendly and easy-going during the interaction.
She will stop showing interest in a guy to see how he reacts.
What a guy needs to do is just relax and remain calm.
He needs to believe in himself and continue to interact with her and not be thrown off by her test, where she stops showing him as much interest as she did at the start.
He just needs to continue to believe in himself and continue to have an interesting, fun conversation with her and build up her attraction.
She will then see that he really is interested in her and isn’t just interested if she is interested.
